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Said A Man Clearly In Over His Head

"Every time you make a copy, technically it's a copyright law violation," said attorney Mark Radcliffe, a copyright expert at DLA Piper Rudnick Gray Cary in Palo Alto. "But for a long time, there's kind of been an unspoken agreement that if you make copies for your friends, people weren't going to go after you. There's been an argument that that might be a fair use in some way�. The whole issue of private copying is a big challenge to American copyright law."


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Title: Said A Man Clearly In Over His Head
Author: Christopher Filkins
Filed Under: web/tech (1)
Published: April 14, 2005 º 22:43:18 PST
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Robert Creeley

Robert is dead. I am overwhelmed with sadness.

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Title: Robert Creeley
Author: Christopher Filkins
Filed Under: Poetry (2)
Published: March 30, 2005 º 17:30:21 PST
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Richard brought a sample of his death over Saturday night.

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Title: Untitled
Author: Christopher Filkins
Filed Under: Poetry (2)
Published: March 16, 2005 º 00:09:56 PST
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Prior Entry: March 10, 2005 º 23:31:40 PST
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Count: 65 Characters º 11 Words
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Venice

So we've moved. It was better this time. Last time, five years ago, we were being stalked by K's mother. I distinctly remember one instance in which I was carrying a large heavy box of books and L walked by nonchalantly as though it were simply happenstance that we met on the street as I was carrying a moving box out of our building. She inquired very politely about K. I responded kindly and gently that she was fine and not home. She was but I wasn't going to tell L that. Not a mention was made of the sleeping on the porch a few days before, the screaming outside the door, the neighbor who was attacked. Nope not one mention. It was so polite as though we were neighbors and she was simply being neighborly.

I was much more on top of this one. It has been arduous & has taken at least 48 hours more than I had planned. I have bruises all over my body. My muscles are sore and I really should be asleep at this hour. But all in all it was one of the best moves I've managed in my life. Today as I was carrying a particularly precariously balanced muddy mail bag of automotive jacks I found myself hard pressed to think of another place I've lived as long as we've lived in Santa Monica. We lived in the dearly departed apartment for 5 years and two months. All in all I've been a resident of Santa Monica for 8 years. I started living in Santa Monica in 1997 as a homeless person. I left in 2005 with my head held high, a good job with a great company, a thriving daughter and deepening ties to the community.

I think I'm going to really love Venice as, at first blush, it is more my speed. But it gives me great pain that we were ultimately forced out of Santa Monica. So it goes. It was a good run.

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Title: Venice
Author: Christopher Filkins
Filed Under: John the Maiden (1)
Keywords: beach
Published: March 10, 2005 º 23:31:40 PST
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Said A Man Clearly In Over His Head

"Every time you make a copy, technically it's a copyright law violation," said attorney Mark Radcliffe, a copyright expert at DLA Piper Rudnick Gray Cary in Palo Alto. "But for a long time, there's kind of been an unspoken agreement that if you make copies for your friends, people weren't going to go after you. There's been an argument that that might be a fair use in some way�. The whole issue of private copying is a big challenge to American copyright law."


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Title: Said A Man Clearly In Over His Head ∝
Author: Christopher Filkins
Filed Under: web/tech (1)
Published: April 14, 2005 º 22:43:18 PST
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Count: 504 Characters º 84 Words
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Robert Creeley

Robert is dead. I am overwhelmed with sadness.

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Title: Robert Creeley
Author: Christopher Filkins
Filed Under: Poetry (2)
Published: March 30, 2005 º 17:30:21 PST
Revised:
Prior Entry: March 16, 2005 º 00:09:56 PST
Prior Entry: April 14, 2005 º 22:43:18 PST
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Richard brought a sample of his death over Saturday night.

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Title: Untitled
Author: Christopher Filkins
Filed Under: Poetry (2)
Published: March 16, 2005 º 00:09:56 PST
Revised:
Prior Entry: March 10, 2005 º 23:31:40 PST
Prior Entry: March 30, 2005 º 17:30:21 PST
Count: 65 Characters º 11 Words
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Venice

So we've moved. It was better this time. Last time, five years ago, we were being stalked by K's mother. I distinctly remember one instance in which I was carrying a large heavy box of books and L walked by nonchalantly as though it were simply happenstance that we met on the street as I was carrying a moving box out of our building. She inquired very politely about K. I responded kindly and gently that she was fine and not home. She was but I wasn't going to tell L that. Not a mention was made of the sleeping on the porch a few days before, the screaming outside the door, the neighbor who was attacked. Nope not one mention. It was so polite as though we were neighbors and she was simply being neighborly.

I was much more on top of this one. It has been arduous & has taken at least 48 hours more than I had planned. I have bruises all over my body. My muscles are sore and I really should be asleep at this hour. But all in all it was one of the best moves I've managed in my life. Today as I was carrying a particularly precariously balanced muddy mail bag of automotive jacks I found myself hard pressed to think of another place I've lived as long as we've lived in Santa Monica. We lived in the dearly departed apartment for 5 years and two months. All in all I've been a resident of Santa Monica for 8 years. I started living in Santa Monica in 1997 as a homeless person. I left in 2005 with my head held high, a good job with a great company, a thriving daughter and deepening ties to the community.

I think I'm going to really love Venice as, at first blush, it is more my speed. But it gives me great pain that we were ultimately forced out of Santa Monica. So it goes. It was a good run.

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Title: Venice
Author: Christopher Filkins
Filed Under: John the Maiden (1)
Keywords: beach
Published: March 10, 2005 º 23:31:40 PST
Revised:
March 16, 2005 º 00:09:56 PST
Count: 1753 Characters º 279 Words
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