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Name or Nick-name	Email address	Age	Location	Marital Status	Out to  Wife	Homepage	Interests and/or comments
Shadowchaser	Shadow_chaser43@ hotmail.com	56	Silverdale, WA	Married	Not Out	.	Backpacking, Camping, hiking, geneological research. Bonsai culture
Grae	Graebeard@ hotmail.com	52	Columbus. OH	Married	Out to wife	Graebeard	Sharing our experiences makes the wild ride we're on all the more interesting...and bearable.
Jim	[email protected]	56	Cincinnati, OH	Married	Not out	.	music, movies, home theater and outdoor activities. I hope to find other guys in similar situations
Eric	erik_28@ hotmail.com	52	Bellingham, WA	Married	Not out to wife	.	Like to ski, play raquettball, cook and play fiddle music
Mark	Montydunn@ aol.com	43	New York	Married	Out to wife	.	Would like to form a support group in the NYC area. If interested. let me know.
Dennis	MB79450@ aol.com	53	Long Beach, CA	Married	Told wife about being bi on our second date	.	Walking on the beach, biking, people; retired HS principal (learning disabled, grades 7-12)
Name	Email address	Age	Location	Marital Status	Out to  Wife	Homepage	Interests and/or comments
Gus	TEACH43841@ aol.com	(young)62	Chicago burb	Married	Out to wife	.	Always interested in meeting others in similar situations and inclinations
Sean Static Ice	static_ice@ hotmail.com	25	Raleigh, NC	Married	Out to wife	.	.
David Murdock	buddy43610 @aol.com	43	Nashville, Tn	Married 12 years	No	.	homemaker, 3 sons 11,8,7 yo, aol chat, baseball,Nashville Predators (NHL),Tenessee Titans (NFL) Vanderbuit sports, nudist resorts (AANR), being nude in hammock/pool/yard, BiMM
Steve	twowayathome@ juno.com	42	Atlant	Married	Out to spouse & kids	.	Feel free to email me!
Jack	Srjack6@ aol.com	59	Santa Rosa, N.California	Widowed	No thank God	.	I am starting to explore my gay side that I have kept bottled up a long time.
Name	Email address	Age	Location	Marital Status	Out to  Wife	Homepage	Interests and/or comments
Mark	tvmarie@ hotmail.com	33	Sothern Oregon	Married	No	.	.
Lane	logic2gate@ hotmail.com	46	Deming, NM	Married	Yes	.	.
Rob/VA Rob	doit9@ hotmail.com	55	Northern Va.	BiMM	No	.	Reading, travel, golf, fishing
Name	Email address	Age	Location	Marital Status	Out to  Wife	Homepage	Interests and/or comments
Harold	PrsnOfNote@ aol.com	56	Carlsbad, CA	Married 34 yrs	since May of '95	.	I'm on SSML, HOW, HUGS and Gay Dads mailing lists. Most pf my "passions" (besides sex, that is) lie in the field of the arts
Ron W	r_m_w@ hotmail.com	52	California	Married	No	.	Games, Computers, Music, Reading, Video movies, Digital camera & other electronic gadgets!
Cal Wolf	clwfox@ hotmail.com	45	Carbondale, IL	getting a divorce	No	.	Right now surviving divorce
Carl in NC	csmallri@ bellsouth.net	40	Charlotte, NC	Married	Yes	www.geocities .com /WestHollywood /8239/index.html	.
Mike "Male Man"	mwm77469@ hotmail.com	.	Houston, Texas	married	no	.	teacher
Name	Email address	Age	Location	Marital Status	Yes	Homepage	Interests and/or comments
Roy Wilson OsoPapa Papa- Bear	OsoPapa1@ hotmail.com	57	Lubbock, TX	Married	Yes	NA	Music, art, architecture, sexual psychology, reading
Peter Stein Corydon	Corydon@ hotmail.com	63	Weaverville North Carolina	Married	No	.	Writer--always looking for good dinner company!
Richard Rockwell	sourweed@ hotmail.com	43	Upstate South Carolina	Married	No	none	very discreet, open to conversation if nothing else; enjoy outdoors, sports, as well as indoors, classic movies, books, and just having fun
Shadow Chaser	Shadow_chaser43 @hotmail.com	56	Seattle Area, Washington	Married	No	Haven't figured out how to build one yet	Backpacking, camping, genealogy, bonsai, SciFi, Action, books and videos, curious about everything...........Oh, yah! I like men too...every inch of them (PI)!!!!
TheoChicago Ted.	sum1ntree@ hotmail.com	45	western suburbs of Chicago, IL	married no children	No	.	Music, Theater, swimming, Cubs Baseball Reading fiction. I have embraced my sexuality after I turned 40. Its had an impact on me in ways I never anticipated. Always interesting in talking via email and chat.
Name	Email address	Age	Location	Marital Status	Out to  Wife	Homepage	Interests and/or comments
Arnie	Bent in Ne@ aol.com	40	omaha, NE	married	since 1993	nope!	.
Dick. That, while being a nick-name is the name I go by though I was born Richard F.	xoc70@ yahoo.com	71	Southern NJ	Married 32 years, 2 sons, grown and left the nest.	Yes, but not to children or any other family member.	No	I know I have become a lurker. It's because I have nothing to add to the very fine replies posted.
Mike	dudintzev@ aol.com	51	Northeast Indiana	Married	yes	None	Water skiing, canoeing, hiking, camping, writing
Jim Brass1sJim or Gunamakeit	Brass1sJim@ aol.com or Gunamakeit@ aol.com	52	Saratoga, New York	Married	Yes
Nope
Family, partners, reading, music (all types), puzzles, and my work.
Name	Email address	Age	Location	Marital Status	Out to  Wife	Homepage	Interests and/or comments
Jim	jim02172@ aol.com	66	Watertown, MA (Boston burb)	married 17 ys.(2nd marr.)	yes	.	retired musician
Jose P.	josepes@ juno.com	37	Cincinnati Ohio	Married	Yes	.	.
Paul (Ottersub)	ottersub@ yahoo.com	48 as of Sept 1999	Lawrence, KS.	Married	Yes	www.geocities .com /WestHollywood /2915	Biology, poetry, gardening. Sexually a bottom interested in bdsm
Peter Mark	PMark@ Juno.com" or PMM555@ Hotmail.com"	53	Baltimore, MD	Happily Married	No	briefencounters .fetish.web 1000.com	Gardening, opera, swimming, Friendly guys in their underwear. Active in DCMMC
Name	Email address	Age	Location	Marital Status	Out to  Wife	Homepage	Interests and/or comments
Ron J	rje@ megsinet.net	41	Chicago Suburbs	Married	Yes	.	.
John	WindsongLn @aol.com	.	Florida	bi mm	not out	.	.
Brian WyoCal	WyoCal@ aol.com	57	CA	Married	Not out	n/a	compassion for my fellow males, hiking, camping, photography, watching my child grow up
Thom, Zodya (Tennessee's Pride)	Zodya @aol.com	52	Middle Tennessee	M	Yes	None	Reading, Golf, Family & Friends, History
Stew	Dadstew @aol.com	53	Williston Vermont	married	not out to wife	no home page	hiking, camping, gardening, reading and "playing"
Name	Email address	Age	Location	Marital Status	Out to  Wife	Homepage	Interests and/or comments
chuck prince	buddy43610 @aol.com	43	Nashville, TN (Vanderbilt Univ Area)	married (12 years)	not out to spouse, family or friends	one of these days i'll quit chatting long enough to figure out how to make a homepage.	homemaker, 3 sons 11,8,7 yo, aol chat, baseball, Nashville Predators (NHL), Tennessee Titans (NFL), Vanderbilt sports, nudist resorts (aanr), being nude in hammock/pool/yard, gardening/yardwork, bimm.
keef roberts	aargh@ erols.com keefycub @yahoo.com	32	NYC	Divorce final on Aug. 16th, 1999.	out	no desire to have a homepage	gay musician, discovered that my other half is a man during the course of my marriage.
Steve K	WithaRose7 @aol.com	46	Ossining, New York	married	yes	don't have	hiking, camping, playing music, Deadhead
Larry/Seeker	EyePicYou @hotmail.com	40s	On TOP of Alabama. (It's a LONG state -- nearly 400 miles from top to bottom.)	Married	Yes	No home page	I am average looking with some other above average attributes...Hey! I MEANT personality!(G)
Name	Email address	Age	Location	Marital Status	Out to  Wife	Homepage	Interests and/or comments
Rick Logsdon	anger25@ hotmail.com orRicLogsdon @aol.com	42	Just moved to San Francisco	Legally separated /partnered to a wonderful guy (Jurg2...he's on the list, too!)	Out to spouse for many years	none at this time	Tennis, snow skiing, singing gospel music. I'd love to talk to other men who are contemplating coming out, especially if they are struggling with their faith. I think I can help.
Rob VA Rob	doit9@ hotmail.com	55	Northern Virginia	BiMM	No	.	Reading, travel, golf, fishing
KenB	vaforfun @pinn.net	65	Va. Beach, VA	widower	I wasn't	None	Computers, gardening, local historical sites, and my new digital camera :)
Bill	tklwrite @hotmail.com	33	Bloomington, IL	Married	Out to wife	None	Bisexual, monogamous since coming out, looking for intimate friendships first
Ric	RCSTR@ AOL.Com or ASunBear@ AOL.Com	50	Louisville,Ky	Married	yes	No	New Warriors, NLP, ACIM, swimming, classic movies
Bob	bluebird5438 @hotmail.com	55	Richmond, VA	Married	NO	none	Mountain hiking, nature photography, gardening watercolor painting, community service projects
Name	Email address	Age	Location	Marital Status	Out to  Wife	Homepage	Interests and/or comments
Steve	twowayathome @juno.com	42	Atlanta	Married	Out to spouse and kids	N/A	Feel free to e-mail me!
Robert Anderson Aladdin2 Bob	aladdin2@ hotmail.com	58	Winston-Salem, NC	Separated/Divorce pending (January)	Yes	N/A	Music, theatre, hiking, golf, scuba diving and KIM! ( my new partner!) Coming out was a painful experience for me and my wife. As an MD I am apprehensive about it's effect on my practice. So far there has been only a few negative repercussions. I am happy to chat with anyone dealing with the same issues. The freedom to finally be ME is exhilarating.
Steve	openseat @hotmail.com	54	VA	Married	Yes to spouse, No to family, most friends	None	Reading, golf and being with my special married buddy.
Name	Email address	Age	Location	Marital Status	Out to  Wife	Homepage	Interests and/or comments
Jay	jayfay@ freenet.tlh.fl.us	45	Fort Lauderdale FL	.	Not out to wife	.	Computing and drowling over bears
Tim ("TJ") Hook prefer " TJ "	TJHook@ webtv.net	55	North Georgia Mountains	Married	Yes	.	fishing, cooking & of course sex
Guy	hanz@ newsguy.com	46	Central Indiana	married	no	.	bicycling, rollerblading, flying, scuba
John G. Shugart	JGShugart @aol.com or BIGESTBEAR @aol.com	72	New Orleans, LA and West Point, MS	Married but getting a divorce	Yes	.	Macintosh computer consultant. Geophysical (Seismograph) Exploration for Oil.
Robert Knight, aka Pornobuddy, versitilebuddy	rknight99@ mindspring.com	33	Redmond Washington	Married	yes	no home page	Outdoor sports-hiking, biking, snow skiig, water skiing, scuba.
Name	Email address	Age	Location	Marital Status	Out to  Wife	Homepage	Interests and/or comments
Mattt	matttmattt @hotmail.com	48	newport, ri	married	no	.	snorkel, water sports (not that kind!), sun, travel, gl men (ooops) teach bibliographic/library database language/development
Vincent (aka Gryph)	gryphon_vc @hotmail.com	45 y/o	Southern Maine - Portland area	Married	NOT out to wife, only to a select few friends	No homepage yet, but sometime early in 2000	Interests? Reading, music, kayaking, good conversation
Name: Steve	stmark66@ hotmail.com	33	SE Wisconsin	married	Nope (and won't be if I want to keep her)	.	Interests: reading, working out, movies, being the best dad I can be, finding a muscular guy to realize some fantasies
Jay or Jack	jd57@hotmail	64	Texas	Married	Yes	NA	Human rights issues, movies, books, music, my work. I enjoy good and open discussions of 'most any subject.
Name	Email address	Age	Location	Marital Status	Out to  Wife	Homepage	Interests and/or comments
Cal	TmpaBayDad @aol.com	49	Clearwater, FL	married	out	Wish I had one!	I love you guys!
Andre'	age_57@ hotmail.com	58	Nwport News, VA	Married	No	.	Woodworking, Crafts, SiFi, Reading
Kono Surfsup	surfinhi@ aol.com	40	HI (Hawaii), Honolulu, Oahu	married	yes	.	Mahalo!
John Mills Carinbear JVMBear659	Carinbear @AOL.com or carinbare2 @mindspring.com	40
Shreveport, LA	divorced	Oh yes!!!!And divorced as a result of it. (Oh well.) Guess you could say I'm formerly married and currently happy (and gay!)		I am a gay father with a 17 y.o. son who wants NOTHING to do with his "gay" dad.
Name	Email address	Age	Location	Marital Status	Out to  Wife	Homepage	Interests and/or comments