Note: I've been married for 6 years and until very recently was in the
closet to wife even though I knew she was Bi. didn't know how she felt about
it turns out it turns her on.  My fantasy is to be with two men at once.  I
prefer the gentle, thoughtful type of mail, no biker types.  Want to find
someone I can cultivate a relationship with, wife is VERY cool about it.